WHY DO WE NEED TO ACCEPT FAILURE IN LIFE

          WHY DO WE NEED TO ACCEPT FAILURE IN LIFE

Learn from it.

          We need to accept failures in our lives because there is value in failure.  Failures make us rethink, reconsider our mistakes, find new strategies to cope with and achieve our goals, and get to know ourselves better.

Failing will happen, no matter how hard one tries to avoid it, so we might as well have a ‘No fear’ attitude towards it. This does not mean one should expect to fail, but when it happens accept it.

Stop fearing it.

          Having a no-fear attitude and embracing failure will maximize your motivation, determination, and perseverance.

Let go of your ego.

         No one wants to fail, because it is bad for our ego.  Failure humbles you and will make you evaluate the situation better.  When our ego is in charge, We will not learn from the mistakes we make, we will not be open to other people’s views or see the situations.

We need to learn, evaluate, and listen to other people if we want to see the changes in order to succeed. We have to accept our flaws, evaluate, learn and move on.

Boost your mood and get back up again.

We can categorize two types of people in this world.

·        People who take failure personally.

   These people see failure as a personal situation and give up.

·        People who use it as a lesson.

    They do not take failures personally but see them as temporary setbacks.

I agree we all go through that phase of feeling low when we fail.  it is natural, human, and evitable.  but how we respond to failures determines our road to success.  if you feel an emotional low after you failed, read or listen to stories of people who have gone through failures in life and now become an inspiration for many. So get up and move on.  I just would like to end by saying to my brothers and sisters.  Life is a battlefield.  No one can defeat you unless you are defeated by yourself.